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Resources for Connecticut Domestic Employers

  • Guidance for All Employers
  • Guidance for Nanny Employers
  • Guidance for Home Attendant Employers
  • Guidance for House Cleaner Employers
Guidance for All Employers

Guidance for All Employers

We know it can be overwhelming to understand what the best practices are when employing someone in your home. At Hand in Hand, we’re committed to providing resources and guidance so that every home in Connecticut can be a fair workplace. Thank you for doing your part.

Connecticut Laws

Wondering what your legal obligations are as someone who employs a worker in your home in the state of Connecticut? Here is an overview of Connecticut Domestic Employer Responsibilities.

To learn more about being a fair employer, watch this brief video about your responsibilities.  

Communicating with the Worker in Your Home

Open and respectful communication is at the heart of any good relationship. Below are some communication best practices for creating a positive employment relationship with the nanny, house cleaner, and home attendant that supports you in your home.

  • Communication Best Practices
  • Having Difficult Conversations
  • Approaching Difficult Conversations During COVID-19

Paying A Fair Wage

We rely on the people we hire in our homes for care and support, in turn its important to pay a fair wage. Learn how to determine wages.

Time off — including medical and sick leave — will ensure that your employee is rested and healthy and ready to do their job well.

Here are some guiding principles around offering paid time off:

  • For full-time employees, provide at least 5 paid sick days per year; and for part-time employees, 1 hour for every 30 hours worked.
  • For full-time employees, provide at least 2 weeks of paid vacation per year; and for part-time employees, 1 hour for every 20 hours worked.
  • Any unused vacation should be paid out as additional pay when the agreement comes up for an annual review or when the worker leaves the job- whichever the employee and employer agree to.
  • Provide the standard 8 paid government holidays or agreed upon holidays of the employee’s choice. If an employee agrees to work on any of these holidays, they should be compensated one-and-a-half times their usual hourly rate.
  • Try to provide at least 6 weeks of paid family or medical leave, with guaranteed employment upon return.

Employer Checklist

Create a work relationship that is mutually beneficial and supportive. Fill out our Employer Checklist.

Sign the Fair Care Pledge

Commit to fair employment practices. Take the Fair Care Pledge Today!

Guidance for Nanny Employers

Guidance for Nanny Employers

Hiring

So you’ve decided that you are going to hire a nanny, congratulations!  Check out our helpful Interview Tips to make the process successful.

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with your nanny. Our sample work agreements are designed to guide you through the process and are meant to be customized to your needs.

  • Childcare Work Agreement
  • Nanny Share Work Agreement

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • Nanny Employer FAQ’s During COVID
  • Nanny Employer Checklist During COVID
Guidance for Home Attendant Employers

Guidance for Home Attendant Employers

Hiring

Hiring for home care can be a complex process.  People with disabilities, older adults, and their supporters must navigate an array of agencies, evaluate needs, and find qualified attendants.  The process is often overwhelming, especially when individuals or families find themselves at the beginning of this journey. We’ve compiled a few resources to help you during the hiring process:

  • Interview Tips
  • Ableism and Ageism Factsheet

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with the home attendant/s you employ. Our sample home attendant agreement is designed to guide you through the process; feel free to customize it so that it meets your needs.

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • Managing Home Attendants/Caregivers During COVID
  • Home Attendant Checklist During COVID 
Guidance for House Cleaner Employers

Guidance for House Cleaner Employers

Hiring

So you’ve decided that you are going to hire a house cleaner, congratulations!  Check out our helpful interview tips to make the process successful.

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with the home attendant/s you employ. Our sample agreement is designed to guide you through the process; feel free to customize it so that it meets your needs.

  • House Cleaner Work Agreement

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • House Cleaner Employer Checklist During COVID

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Resistance begins in our homes and on our blocks! ✊

In the face of violence towards immigrants and attacks on services for people with disabilities and older adults — we're building solidarity.

Join us for a virtual training:
Fund Care, Not ICE: Building Immigrant Solidarity as Homecare Employers
When: Wednesday, March 11 | 3:00 PM PST
Where: Zoom
Register via link in comments 👇

Learn practical, actionable ways to defend the immigrant homecare workers who support us in our daily lives—and get plugged into ways to organize to protect healthcare and homecare for all of us, including immigrants with disabilities.

Access: ASL, CART & Spanish interpretation available.
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La resistencia comienza en nuestros hogares y en nuestras cuadras! ✊

Ante la violencia hacia los inmigrantes y los ataques a los servicios para personas con discapacidades y adultos mayores — estamos construyendo solidaridad.

Únase a nosotros para una capacitación virtual:
Financie el Cuidado, No a ICE: Construir Solidaridad con los Inmigrantes como Empleadores de Cuidado en el Hogar
Cuándo: Miércoles, 11 de marzo | 3:00 PM PST
Dónde: Zoom
Regístrese via el enlace en los comentarios 👇

Aprenda maneras prácticas y concretas de defender a los trabajadores inmigrantes de cuidado en el hogar que nos apoyan en nuestra vida diaria — y conéctese a formas de organizarse para proteger la atención médica y el cuidado en el hogar para todos nosotros, incluidos los inmigrantes con discapacidades.

Accesibilidad: Interpretación en LSA, CART y español disponibles.

#SanctuaryHomes #ICEOutOfOurCommunities #ICEOutForGood #DisabilityJustice #HomeCare
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Resistance begins in our homes and on our blocks! ✊

In the face of violence towards immigrants and attacks on services for people with disabilities and older adults — were building solidarity.

Join us for a virtual training: 
Fund Care, Not ICE: Building Immigrant Solidarity as Homecare Employers 
When: Wednesday, March 11 | 3:00 PM PST 
Where: Zoom 
Register via link in comments 👇

Learn practical, actionable ways to defend the immigrant homecare workers who support us in our daily lives—and get plugged into ways to organize to protect healthcare and homecare for all of us, including immigrants with disabilities.

Access: ASL, CART & Spanish interpretation available.
• • • 
La resistencia comienza en nuestros hogares y en nuestras cuadras!  ✊

Ante la violencia hacia los inmigrantes y los ataques a los servicios para personas con discapacidades y adultos mayores — estamos construyendo solidaridad.

Únase a nosotros para una capacitación virtual: 
Financie el Cuidado, No a ICE: Construir Solidaridad con los Inmigrantes como Empleadores de Cuidado en el Hogar
Cuándo: Miércoles, 11 de marzo | 3:00 PM PST
Dónde: Zoom
Regístrese via el enlace en los comentarios 👇

Aprenda maneras prácticas y concretas de defender a los trabajadores inmigrantes de cuidado en el hogar que nos apoyan en nuestra vida diaria — y conéctese a formas de organizarse para proteger la atención médica y el cuidado en el hogar para todos nosotros, incluidos los inmigrantes con discapacidades.

Accesibilidad: Interpretación en LSA, CART y español disponibles.

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Hand in Hand member Kathleen Coll shares why she joined us on Saturday to educate neighbors and employers on how to help keep immigrant domestic workers safe — in their homes and in their communities.

Because employers and advocates coming together to support immigrant domestic workers isn’t just powerful. It’s how we take care of each other. 🫶

To learn more, check out our Sanctuary Homes resources at tinyurl.com/HiHSanctuaryHomes or via link in bio 🔗

Keep on following us and CA Domestic Workers Coalition to support the movement.✊

#SanctuaryHomes #DomesticWorkers #DomesticEmployers #ICEOutOfOurCommunities #ICEOutForGood

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