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Resources for Washington Domestic Employers

  • Guidance for All Employers
  • Guidance for Nanny Employers
  • Guidance for Home Attendant Employers
  • Guidance for House Cleaner Employers
Guidance for All Employers

Guidance for All Employers

We know it can be overwhelming to understand what the best practices are when employing someone in your home. At Hand in Hand, we’re committed to providing resources and guidance so that every home in Washington can be a fair workplace. Thank you for doing your part.

Know the Laws

Pay attention to laws that are put in place to protect domestic workers and serve as a guide to employers as well.

  • Understanding the Seattle Domestic Workers Standards Ordinance
  • Seattle’s Fair Employment Practices Ordinance
  • WA Paid Sick and Safe Time
  • Seattle Paid Sick and Safe Time

Communicating with the Worker in Your Home

Open and respectful communication is at the heart of any good relationship. Below are some communication best practices for creating a positive employment relationship with the nanny, house cleaner, and home attendant that supports you in your home.

  • Communication Best Practices
  • Having Difficult Conversations
  • Approaching Difficult Conversations During COVID-19

Paying A Fair Wage

We rely on the people we hire in our homes for care and support, in turn its important to pay a fair wage. Learn more…

Establishing Paid Time Off

Time off — including medical and sick leave — will ensure that your employee is rested and healthy and ready to do their job well.

Here are some guiding principles around offering paid time off:

  • For full-time employees, provide at least 5 paid sick days per year; and for part-time employees, 1 hour for every 30 hours worked.
  • For full-time employees, provide at least 2 weeks of paid vacation per year; and for part-time employees, 1 hour for every 20 hours worked.
  • Any unused vacation should be paid out as additional pay when the agreement comes up for an annual review or when the worker leaves the job- whichever the employee and employer agree to.
  • Provide the standard 8 paid government holidays or agreed upon holidays of the employee’s choice. If an employee agrees to work on any of these holidays, they should be compensated one-and-a-half times their usual hourly rate.
  • Try to provide at least 6 weeks of paid family or medical leave, with guaranteed employment upon return.

Employer Checklist

Create a work relationship that is mutually beneficial and supportive. Fill out our Employer Checklist

Sign the Fair Care Pledge

Commit to fair employment practices. Take the Fair Care Pledge Today!

Guidance for Nanny Employers

Guidance for Nanny Employers

Hiring

So you’ve decided that you are going to hire a nanny, congratulations!  Check out our helpful Interview Tips to make the process successful.

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with your nanny. Our sample work agreements are designed to guide you through the process and are meant to be customized to your needs.

  • Seattle Nanny Share Work Agreement
  • National Nanny Share Work Agreement
  • Seattle Childcare Work Agreement 
  • National Childcare Work Agreement

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • Nanny Employer FAQ’s During COVID
  • Nanny Employer Checklist During COVID
Guidance for Home Attendant Employers

Guidance for Home Attendant Employers

Hiring

Hiring for home care can be a complex process.  People with disabilities, older adults, and their supporters must navigate an array of agencies, evaluate needs, and find qualified attendants.  The process is often overwhelming, especially when individuals or families find themselves at the beginning of this journey. We’ve compiled a few resources to help you during the hiring process:

  • Interview Tips
  • Ableism and Ageism Factsheet
  • Hiring through a Home Care Agency

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with the home attendant/s you employ. Our sample home attendant agreement is designed to guide you through the process; feel free to customize it so that it meets your needs.

  • Seattle Home Attendant Agreement 
  • National Home Attendant Agreement 

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • Managing Home Attendants/Caregivers During COVID
  • Home Attendant Checklist During COVID 
Guidance for House Cleaner Employers

Guidance for House Cleaner Employers

Hiring

So you’ve decided that you are going to hire a house cleaner, congratulations!  Check out our helpful interview tips to make the process successful.

Contracts/Agreements

Establishing a contract or written agreement is a fundamental part of a good working relationship with the house cleaner/s you employ. Our sample house cleaner agreement is designed to guide you through the process, and it includes options for people that employ house cleaners full-time; feel free to customize it so that it meets your needs.

  • Seattle House Cleaner Work Agreement 
  • National House Cleaner Work Agreement 

Staying Safe during COVID-19 

  • House Cleaner Employer Checklist During COVID

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For Mother’s Day, Hand in Hand member Salua joined us to show how many mothers are missing — and to demand we Shut Down Dilley.

It’s not too late. Add your voice. Take action with us:

• Sign the petition linked in our bio and in our stories.
• Tag and share with 5 moms/parents/allies.

Let’s do all we can to bring them home! 🦋

#ShutDownDilley #MissingMomsOfDilley #MothersDay2026 #SanctuaryHomes

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At Hand in Hand, we organize the people who employ nannies, housecleaners, and home attendants to support domestic worker rights. Many of our members are parents, who hire workers to care for their families and homes.

One third of domestic workers are immigrants, and as an organization dedicated to the rights and protections of domestic workers, we stand with the call to Shut Down Dilley. We will not be silent as children and families are detained and terrorized. Nobody should be torn away from their family. We will not stand by as those who provide essential care to our families are demonized.

Listen as Ximena shares why she’s filming this video today — Mother’s Day — to demand we Shut Down Dilley.

Join us today to show how many mothers are missing.

Take action with us:
• Sign the 2 petitions linked in her bio and in our stories.
• Tag and share with 5 moms/parents/allies.

Just as she says: “We will not let this administration normalize this cruelty — Hope is a choice no one can take away from us. We will hold steadfast in hope and in action.”

#ShutDownDilley #MissingMomsOfDilley #MothersDay2026 #SanctuaryHomes

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